One of the most pressing topics among female audiences these days is how to motivate a man
earn more.
I myself have asked myself this question more than once. If it worries you too, read this article.
Of course, it is easiest to motivate a man
when everything is fine in your relationship. at for his woman .
But what to do if the relationship has cracked?
You will find the answer here >>>
Today, many psychologists and coaches talk about how to motivate a man to earn more. But let's be honest: 80% of the techniques they recommend practically don't work. Otherwise, all the men around you would have long ago become successful, rich and happy.
In this article, I will give you three very useful tips, the implementation of which will 100% help you motivate your man to become successful and earn more.
My friend's story
I want to share with you the story of my friend Nastya, who knows firsthand how to motivate a man to earn more.
This is not a separate, isolated incident from her life. This is a whole system of views, a lifestyle and a way of thinking.
Nastya never worked. She never worked a single day in her life, can you imagine?
And all because her husband provides for her.
Does this mean that Nastya does nothing about it? Not at all! In fact, she works constantly. Above what? To ensure that my husband earns even more!
You ask - how? How does she manage to motivate her husband to earn even more?
I will tell you what it does and give advice on what exactly you need to do to improve your family’s financial situation.
Read this article to the end and start applying what you have learned today.
Secret No. 3
The third important point: trust the man! Nowadays, it is very difficult for independent women to relax their grip and let go of control. We control everything and everyone: husbands, children, colleagues, weight, circumstances. As a former director, I can confirm this to you.
Even now, it is sometimes very difficult for me to cope with the habit of control. But the trick is that when a woman is relaxed, then everything works out for the best, especially if all the responsibility is transferred to the man. Then he is inspired by the fact that he is needed.
In general, the most important rule for competent communication with men is this: it is important for a man to feel needed and free at the same time. If these two conditions are met, then you can already be called a female muse! At the same time, you don’t even have to know how to cook foie gras with truffle sauce and have a breast size of 4.
Remember Salvador Dali's muse? Gala was, to put it mildly, not a beauty, but thanks to her charisma, energy and faith in the talent of her chosen one, the world recognized the brilliant artist. And there are many, many such confirmations in history.
How to motivate a man to earn more. Taboo
Quite often girls come to me with the following question:
— How to motivate a man to become successful? I’m trying to inspire him with the words “You are my best, most successful, you will achieve everything easily, I believe in you.” After all, this is exactly what psychologists recommend on the Internet. But I don’t see any progress, my man doesn’t change and doesn’t want to earn more. Moreover, he gets angry and thinks that I am “teasing” him or mocking him...
Does this sound familiar to you? I think yes.
What will my friend Nastya say about this?
Nastya understands that it is useless to inspire a man with phrases:
- "I believe in you";
- “You are the most successful”;
- “You deserve a pay rise.”
She knows that at best this will not be enough, and at worst it will not work at all.
It won’t work because these are just words that you yourself don’t believe
.
Think about it: how can your man become more successful if you yourself doubt it? Will anything change if you regularly encourage him with similar phrases, but in fact think the exact opposite about him?
It’s even worse when women start bombarding their men with reproaches:
- “Why don’t you give me anything?”;
- “When will you start earning normal money?”;
- “But Svetka’s husband earns a lot! They will fly to Europe soon.”
Such a policy not only does not work, but, on the contrary, worsens your relationship. Who likes to hear reproaches? No one. And your man too.
Therefore, forget such phrases forever! Let them become a taboo for you, which should never, under any conditions or circumstances, be violated.
And looking ahead, I want to share the results of the students of our school POWER IN THOUGHT, who are already using the advice with might and main:
Who is he really?
First you need to take into account that a man is 100% internally motivated
, because:
1) A man always acts according to plan.
Even if you don't agree with this plan, he still already has it, which means nothing can force him to abandon it: be it planning to build a skyscraper or watching TV.
Rest assured, he has a plan even for this. How to motivate your loved one in this case? Try to inspire him, become a muse for him.
2) Motivation and inspiration work differently.
At first glance, these are two identical concepts, but in reality they do not have much in common.
Motivation can be defined as an internal drive to action.
How to motivate your husband to earn more. Main secret
So, it's time to share with you the most effective tips and secrets on how to motivate your husband to become successful.
My friend Nastya realized long ago that it’s not about the words with which you approve of your men, and certainly not about reproaches. She realized that she needed to stop scolding her husband and start working not with words, but with thoughts. With your thoughts.
If you've been reading this blog for a long time, you know that we create our own reality through our own thoughts. Our thoughts are material: what we think is what we get in reality.
What we think about, what we believe in, is what we get in reality.
Read more about this in the article What is the Law of Attraction? Open your eyes to a world of endless possibilities
My husband’s motivation to earn more is no exception. This is also working with your thoughts.
The tips that I will share with you today have already been used by hundreds of Elizaveta Volkova’s students at the “Power in Thought” school of wish fulfillment, and they never cease to be amazed at how simple and effective everything really is.
Your thoughts affect your entire life, including your relationship with a man and his level of income.
And if you want to help your man become successful and rich, improve relationships with him, stop quarreling over trifles, get rid of misunderstandings and mutual reproaches, attend a free master class by Elizaveta Volkova >>>
Every day, the “Power in Thought” project receives messages with personal stories from women about how their men change their attitude towards them, start giving gifts for no reason, their salaries grow, they are given bonuses, promotions, and so on. For example:
Share his hobbies
For some reason, modern men find it difficult to decide on a serious relationship. How to push a guy to take a responsible step? Become a good friend for him who understands him and shares his hobbies. Moreover, this must be done sincerely and without pretense.
There's really nothing crazy about rooting for his favorite sports team, watching his favorite TV series, adding his favorite tracks to a playlist, reading his favorite book, and then discussing it. Believe me, no one will want to let go of such a kindred spirit.
How to motivate your husband to earn more
Tip
# 2: Sincerely believe and trust your husband
It is very important not to just say that you believe in your husband. It is important to believe in this with all your heart, to know and be confident literally on a subconscious level.
Often women think:
- Well, my husband is a mattress, he won’t earn much;
- But how can he earn a lot? With his profession he can only earn pennies;
- He was never promoted, his salary never increased either, what can I do, that’s how I am;
- His boss is a “goat” and doesn’t like everyone;
- He has no choice, he has to work in such a low position;
- Everyone in his company earns so little;
- Without connections, he will not get a normal job.
If you are familiar with at least one of these phrases, stop immediately! Stop thinking like that. Do not forget that it is with your thoughts that are now spinning in your head that you shape your reality.
Do you want your man to become successful? So, believe that this will inevitably happen.
Imagine that your thoughts are like drops of water. One thought or one drop means almost nothing. But when the drops fall again and again, you first notice a wet spot, then a small puddle forms, then a pond.
So thoughts can turn into a lake and, finally, an ocean. What kind of ocean will you create? Polluted with toxic substances, in which you cannot swim, or crystal clear, blue, inviting you to enjoy a refreshing swim?
You can tell your man:
- What a great fellow you are;
- I believe in you;
- You deserve more;
- You are clever;
- You deserve a lot of money.
But if subconsciously, inside yourself, you don’t believe in it, nothing will work out, and perhaps it will turn out even worse.
Therefore your task is:
1. Control your thoughts. Avoid negative thoughts about your man.
2. Sincerely, 100% sincerely, believe that your man is smart, successful and easily achieves everything in this life.
You need to learn to visualize your man the way you want him to be. Give him those qualities that he does not (yet) have: a leader, a successful businessman, a valuable specialist, a responsible irreplaceable employee, and so on.
The effective meditation from this video will help you with this. Listen to it every day and you will notice how your man becomes better every day:
Women's tricks in motivating the stronger sex
In order for a person to become responsible, persistent, and purposeful, a woman must always pretend to be weak, even if in reality she is not, and hide her success. This must be done without fail. Then the partner will want to protect her and thus develop important qualities: self-confidence, the ability to achieve one’s own and earn money for the family in order to live in abundance, perseverance and determination. This is a time-tested means of motivation.
Also, in no case should you be rude and insult your chosen one, even if he doesn’t succeed in everything. You need to praise and inspire for any, even the most insignificant, step forward, for any business. In this case, the man will understand that he is important to the woman, this is the right path to progress and the right movement forward.
You shouldn’t share your tricks in motivating your loved one with anyone. Of course, the partner shouldn’t know anything either. Let the man think that he achieved all his successes on his own, without the help of a lady, and let his partner have nothing to do with his great victories. Then he will become even more self-confident and strong in spirit, and his love for his chosen one will only intensify. These simple tips will help inspire any guy to do great things and receive his love every day. The main thing is to act according to the system and guide your husband through life without stopping him from going on his own.
Every lady has her own little tricks
Interesting. If your partner is very stubborn, you can, as they say in psychology, “go by the opposite” to achieve the desired goal. An example from practice: my husband was laid off from his job, and he has not found a job for a long time, he does not even want to work, receive money and support his family. In order to drive her partner off the couch, the woman, on the contrary, persuades him to rest and motivates this by the fact that a good job with big earnings is still very difficult to find. In 99% of 100, the stubborn person will certainly begin the search for a new position of money and wealth, guided solely by a feeling of protest.
It is not difficult to become a source of inspiration for a representative of the stronger sex; the main thing is to behave confidently and know your worth. Practical experience shows that such behavior can motivate a gentleman to do anything, including a marriage proposal followed by a trip to the registry office. Each man is a unique personality requiring an individual approach.
How to motivate your husband to earn more
Tip #3. Don't expect or demand anything
I once heard a woman say to her man:
“I will love you, dear, if you provide for me, give me gifts.
You are not a real man if you cannot provide for me, your woman. If you don’t give me flowers for no reason, don’t give me expensive gifts, then you don’t love me, I don’t need someone like that, you don’t care about me.”
Do you think this couple has a good relationship? Of course not.
The third piece of advice for you: don’t demand anything from your man and don’t expect anything from him!
Learn to simply love your man without any conditions.
Tell yourself:
“I don’t need anything from him, I love him simply because he is next to me, he is my great happiness. It’s very valuable that he loves me.”
Thank your man for being there. Don't exchange love for money and things. After all, love is a tremendous gift that cannot be compared with any material benefits.
Start every day mentally thanking your man for being with you, for every little thing that he pleases you with.
On the subject: How to improve relationships in a couple? Writing a gratitude diary
Following these sincere feelings of gratitude and love, material benefits from your man will begin to come to you. You will see that he has become more caring, kinder and happier around you.
Valentina Krasina, a successful trainer and happy wife, says:
“I never wanted anything from my husband, I never asked for anything. And despite this, he quickly rose up the career ladder and achieved a lot, providing for our family.”
And look what the students of our school of wish fulfillment, POWER IN THOUGHT, write:
Have an honest conversation
If hints and techniques don't work (or don't have the effect you expected), it may be time to talk openly. Yes, men don’t like this kind of relationship talk. And women do not like uncertainty, and this also needs to be treated with understanding and respect.
A frank conversation will help you cross all the i’s. Even if the result is a breakup, take it positively. Of course it's painful and sad. But on the other hand, you will no longer waste time and energy on unpromising relationships.
The results will not keep you waiting
Now you have incredibly useful information.
Record these tips and write them down so you don’t lose them.
Start applying this knowledge today and you will see for yourself how simple and easy everything works.
Come to a meeting with Elizaveta Volkova and find out how, with the help of the right thoughts, you can realize any desires: a high income for your husband, expensive clothes, a car, an apartment, travel, love, career and business - nothing will be impossible for you >>>
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