How to make a man jealous: 7 working ways

Jealousy is a dangerous weapon in the wrong hands; if a woman uses it too often, the whole effect disappears; if you don’t use it at all, the relationship can become boring and insipid. The truth is that all people are jealous, whether they realize it or not is a completely different question. But women can quite consciously make the man they like jealous in order to get what they need.

Of course, this looks like an unpleasant manipulation, but everyone knows the phrase “In love, as in war, all means are fair.” And jealousy is precisely a bizarre mixture of love and “war” in a relationship.

How to make a man jealous: 7 working ways

Nothing binds you like jealousy.
Andre Maurois. Prometheus, or the Life of Balzac

• 1. In what cases does jealousy help?
• 2.When you NEED to cause jealousy
• 3.When NOT to cause jealousy
• 4.Why is it sometimes necessary to make a man jealous?
• 5.Tricks that will make a man jealous 5.1.1. Sexuality
• 5.2.2. Flirting
• 5.3.3. Ignore
• 5.4.4. meetings with friends
• 5.5.5. Social media

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When NOT to be jealous

• If a girl broke up with a guy, but at the same time flirts with his best friend or colleague, in the hope of causing jealousy and getting him back.
  Here the woman uses jealousy to induce feelings of guilt, thereby, as it were, punishing the man. This is bad for both him and her.

  While a woman is overwhelmed by feelings of anger and resentment, she cannot think soberly, and when the first emotional intensity subsides, she will greatly regret what she has done. So you should remember that deliberately making your ex jealous is not the best idea.

Why is it sometimes necessary to make a man jealous?

The man is jealous...

A man never, even to himself, admits that he is jealous.

If a girl likes a man, but she is not sure of his reciprocal sympathy, then jealousy can serve as a catalyst for both, revealing true feelings for each other.

Jealousy can also add spice to a fading relationship, returning it to its previous course, safely avoiding a painful separation.

Spouse

Married life, if you do not stir up the interest of partners, becomes routine. Therefore, the female half often resorts to little tricks to attract attention from her husband.

When your cell phone rings, leave the room so as not to talk in front of your husband. By creating the illusion of mystery, the wife will intrigue her husband, who will definitely ask later who called. There is no point in answering the question right away; it is better to tactfully move the conversation in a different direction.

But do this in moderation, without focusing too much on what is happening. Otherwise, a man may begin to explore his other half’s phone, trying to find a mysterious interlocutor. It’s also not worth writing to a friend about plans to attract your husband’s attention, so that he doesn’t read it. Such a message can cause aggression and misunderstanding.

Having completed her daily duties, a woman can allow herself to do her favorite things or find new hobbies. Slightly ignoring your partner will definitely make him jealous. This feeling is based not only on the instinct of competition, but is also fueled by lack of attention.

During routine affairs, women often forget about themselves. To ensure that your spouse experiences the same feelings, regularly take care of your appearance. A trip to a beauty salon can make your husband jealous. The thought of a competitor's appearance will certainly slip into his head.

The main condition is that the husband does not guess about the woman’s intentions: men cannot tolerate manipulation in their direction, even if it is based on good intentions.

Tricks to make a man jealous

Making a man jealous is sometimes so simple: they are jealous when a girl looks stunning and is not theirs, they are jealous when a girl flirts with another, completely ignoring him - so wonderful in every sense.
They are jealous, even when someone else simply noted the attractiveness of a woman, without reciprocity on her part. They are jealous often and unconsciously, so why don't women take the steering wheel into their own hands?

Jealousy is a sign of love. Alexandr Duma. Count of Monte Cristo

Sexuality

It is known that men “love with their eyes,” so grooming and elegance are the shortest way to winning a man’s attention.
To give yourself even more chances, try adding a sexy touch to your look. And remember: there is a very fine line between sexuality and vulgarity, so it is important not to overdo it here.

Flirting

The art of flirting is an indispensable skill in communicating with the opposite sex.
Flirting in communication eliminates nervousness, calms and wins over your interlocutor. Nothing will make a man jealous more than the scene of you flirting with another “candidate for your hand and heart.” So feel free to flirt with his friends, rewarding him with your attention from time to time. After all, demonstratively “bypassing” him, flirting with others in front of his eyes, is the most disastrous strategy for seducing a man.

Ignore

Men simply cannot stand it when the girl they like ignores and does not notice them. One caveat - ignoring should not be feigned and demonstrative.

• Don't show that you were looking forward to his call.
• Don't ask a hundred times about the meeting scheduled for next weekend.
• Don't pick up the phone on the first ring.
• From time to time, allow yourself not to answer the call at all, and when he later asks (and he definitely will) what it was, give a plausible, and most importantly, decent explanation for your absence.
  You should only talk about the reasons for your employment in response to his question. There is no need for any initiative here, let him suffer with guesses.
• Don't ask him endlessly about his feelings and what he's thinking. This shows the girl’s great interest, and it is especially disadvantageous when he himself does not show such signs of concern.

meetings with friends

Group meetings can work for you in two ways.
The first is a company consisting more of women. Ignoring him, his remarks and jokes against the background of the other women involved creates dissonance and draws his attention to you. Secondly, a company predominantly consisting of men gives you even greater bonuses: light flirting and active communication with everyone inflames and inflames a man’s jealousy worse than a tinderbox.

Social media

Social networks are simply a treasure for those who want to make a man jealous, even while at a considerable distance from him.
With modern technology it's ridiculously easy. Take interesting selfies on Instagram or Facebook with friends of the opposite sex, publish ambiguous posts and put ambiguous statuses. Give him room for imagination! Let him “attach” his thoughts to you, wondering who this “friend” is to you and what you two did together at that meeting. What did you want to say by hanging this status on your wall? And what is this post about unrequited love for a distant and unattainable man? Did you mean him, or someone else? Let him think and worry, and we will mark 1:0 in our favor.

Jealousy is the engine of demography. The greater the jealousy, the higher the birth rate! Snowy love, or a winter's night's dream

Safety precautions

Your job is to create feelings of jealousy in a way that benefits the relationship. To do this, the opponent must not exist in reality, but only in the head of the spouse. You must maintain purity and chastity so that you have nothing to reproach.

1. The man himself must imagine the image of his opponent. If you decide that your “boyfriend” works with you in the same office, do not specify what kind of person he is. Don't tell your husband that he is attractive, interesting, and drives an SUV. Let him know that he told a funny story (he has a great sense of humor!), gave him a lift to one company (he has a car!) to pick up documents for management, helped complete a difficult task (he is very smart!). A man must himself, in draw an image of your opponent in your thoughts. What comes to his mind is indicated in brackets. In most cases, any qualities will be exaggerated, so the spouse will imagine him as coming off the cover of a magazine, having a luxurious, expensive foreign car and a professorial title. Thus, he will think that the ghost boyfriend is superior to him in many ways and will begin to worry.
2. If you change, only for your man . A new style of clothing or hairstyle will not go unnoticed by your man. If he is interested in changes and directly asks what they mean, always answer directly and honestly: so that you admire me more! Of course, he may have doubts, but if there are no hints of other reasons, you will remain pure in front of your husband.

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   The best is only your man. Even if you started a game to make your husband jealous, do everything so that neither his reputation nor his feelings are damaged. If you are told that you are not deprived of male attention or you have a boyfriend, shrug your shoulders indifferently and answer directly: “I don’t care. I already have the most wonderful man in the world – you.” Such words will not reduce the jealousy of the spouse, but instead of accusing him of treason, he will begin to compare himself with his “rival” and try to become better. And this is exactly what is needed.
4. Eliminate any possible incriminating evidence . Do everything so that there is no difference between words and actions. If you said that you went to the cinema in the company of friends, actually go there with your friends. If at ten in the evening the phone call was from mom, it was actually from mom. The art of causing jealousy is subtly and skillfully making a man create everything in his head.
5. You remain faithful to him . Always be faithful. In any situation. If you can’t arouse jealousy in a man, he is still indifferent to you, then think about it. The relationship probably needs to change or the game needs to end. There is no need to make real fans and lovers.
6. All actions are aimed at taking care of him . When you return late from work, a man mentally imagines how you are having a great time with that “attractive and cheerful” person. But you return home and tell him that the line at the checkout at the supermarket was very long, and he really wanted to buy his favorite raspberries for the pie. Or you went through several departments in the store to choose the best shirt for him. The phone, as luck would have it, was dead.

Communicate all this with calmness, ease, smiling, as if you do not notice the tension in your spouse’s gaze and behavior. Don’t make excuses, don’t reproach him, don’t sort things out. Apologize that you couldn’t warn him that you’d be late and made him worry.

Pathological jealousy in men

What to avoid

The guy is jealous of his girlfriend

Obviousness

When arousing jealousy in a man, it is important not to do it “for show” and so that he can guess that this is your trick.
If he guesses, it’s a disaster, you lose. Distance and cooling on his part are guaranteed. It’s not for nothing that jealousy is called a dangerous weapon; it’s akin to poison: in the right dose it’s medicine, a little more than what’s allowed is already poison. Try to act in accordance with the context of the setting and communication, without causing strong contrast, try to appear sincere and spontaneous, and you will succeed.

Boundaries of what is permitted

If you're in a relationship, hugging others in front of your loved one is not a good idea, to put it mildly.
If you are at the stage of “playing with your eyes” and haven’t even really talked yet, such obvious interest from other men will certainly arouse the interest and jealousy of the object. In the first case, you will get burning, evil jealousy and a completely justified cooling of your partner. Plus, most likely, they will no longer trust you. The situations seem to be the same, but the results are so different! It's all about the context of the situation and the limits of what is permitted for your partner. If he is a Casanova, a public kiss can ignite attraction and refresh the relationship; if he is a calm, “family” guy, even light flirting can be the reason for separation.

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New acquaintance

First, make sure that the guy is interested in you. If a boy absolutely does not pay attention to a girl, then in this case one cannot count on the manifestation of emotions. In the opposite situation, act gradually and unobtrusively.

A change in image always arouses interest among others. For example, a new hairstyle, discreet makeup and a beautiful manicure. Changing the image will make the guy think about who the girl is preening for. It is important here not to overdo it with changes, so as not to alienate a potential young man.

To make a guy jealous, expand your social circle. In company, try to find someone to talk to other than the object of desire. Then he will definitely want to turn attention to himself. If you see such a desire, be sure to communicate with him.

You cannot completely distance yourself from a young man. He may think that the young lady is indifferent to him. Bring the conversation to a general discussion by actively participating in it.

If a guy wants to know about the time spent without his participation, then it is better to remain silent or move the topic in another direction. Such a maneuver can make a man think and even provoke jealousy. He will begin to fantasize about what the girl was doing if she is not able to give a clear answer.

To get a guy emotional, you can mention another member of the opposite sex. Do it unobtrusively and rarely: praise a fictional character or friend for helping in some important matter. The feeling of rivalry has not been canceled. If you involve a friend in the manipulation, warn him in advance so that there is no embarrassment.