How to cheer up a girl when she's sad

A guy brings flowers to his girlfriend: Pixabay Girls are impressionable, and therefore react very sharply to literally everything. Increased vulnerability leads to frequent loss of spirit. Accordingly, guys are left to look for ways to help both cheer up a girl’s mood and maintain it. A lot of workable ideas and tips to achieve success in this difficult task are collected in the article.

Believe me, you don't have to be a professional comedian.

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As you know, one of the main traits of men that many women value is a healthy sense of humor. And this is not surprising, because the ability to cheer up is also associated with wit, creativity, a sense of tact and many other useful qualities.

In this material we will tell you how to cheer up a girl so that she not only laughs, but also feels better. Our advice is ideal for guys who don’t understand how to behave in such situations, and all they can do is say: “Well, don’t be sad, everything will be fine.”

Methods to improve a girl's mood

The methods presented are similar. In any difficult situation, the beloved needs a touching, caring attitude.

In case of problems at work

If your beloved is overtired at work or faces difficulties, it is worth giving her quality rest. You can buy her certificates for shopping or spa treatment. It is worth ordering delicious dishes at home or visiting a restaurant. A good way out is a mini-trip. If your significant other is a lover of thrills, you can go through a horror quest or have fun on the rides. She will enjoy extreme excursions (abandoned buildings, rooftops, night quests).

In addition to entertainment, the girl will enjoy the sincere care of her partner. Solving even one problem will give her hope and encouragement. It is necessary to find out what worries your loved one and eliminate the trouble. This could be a domestic problem or a conflict. Both points are quite correctable. The girl will see in the gentleman a knight, a protector.

You can create a romantic homemade gift that will touch your partner. Drawings, accessories, and interior elements are suitable. You can glue a box, weave a bracelet, or make a shelf. The beloved will appreciate the guy’s work and efforts.

During depression

This is a complex psychological diagnosis, so it is worth suggesting that your significant other visit a psychologist. A prolonged illness indicates problems in the body. It is not always possible to fight them on your own. When offering such a solution to your partner, it is important to remain tactful and affectionate. In order for your friend to agree, you should go with her to a specialist.

If the blues do not last long, and there are no symptoms of depression as an illness, it is worth surrounding your chosen one with affection and attention. You need to wipe away her tears, repeat her compliments, recreate happy memories. You cannot leave your beloved alone for a long time. She needs impressions, communication, emotions. Festivals and concerts are suitable.

To lift the mood, a girl needs to be given gentle touches. Let morning caresses become a ritual. After waking up, your companion should immediately be hugged and kissed. While walking, she should also feel her own hand. This gesture proves the guy's caring attitude.

When she's sick

If your beloved is sick, you need to show the most touching care. It is important to leave small symbols of love near her. They will support the girl while her partner is not around. A list of acts of caring that can cheer up a sad girl:

Read a cozy fairy tale or poem to make your loved one fall asleep.
Give a fluffy toy that the girl can hug. If the toy has a pocket, you can secretly leave warm wishes in it.
You can attach a calendar next to her bed with gentle encouraging phrases next to each date.
A homemade medicine box will make treatment less bitter. The box should be decorated with an inspiring inscription.
A cozy homemade blanket, favorite mug, and warm scarf will create comfort even in a depressing hospital ward.

If she's just bored

A caring guy will study his girlfriend’s tastes and find out what makes her happy. This will help him please the girl if she is not in the mood. To overcome boredom, you need to plan a free day for your loved one:

Surprise her in the morning: make an appetizing, beautifully decorated breakfast, serve it with a bouquet of flowers. You can write confessions on food, draw hearts.
Constantly distract from the cause of sadness with affection, surprises, and a walk.
Give your beloved a real day off (protect her from all her usual worries).
In the evening, take care of a gourmet dinner (cook it yourself or invite your chosen one to a reputable restaurant).
End the day with a relaxing massage.

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To make her laugh

First, it is important to find out what type of humor the chosen one has: ironic, intellectual, black. Different ladies need to be entertained in different ways. Stories should be supported by bright facial expressions, and sometimes a joke works better if told calmly, without emotion. It is worth choosing the appropriate option:

Tell a cool story from your own past.
Remember modern non-vulgar jokes.
Gently make fun of the situation and those around you. Evil ridicule can be off-putting.
Invent an absurd fairy tale or tell an existing surreal story. It is important to warn that this is fiction.

Don't joke non-stop. It is better to demonstrate the ability to make people laugh several times, rather than turning the dialogue into a stand-up routine. A guy who only amuses his interlocutor will be perceived by her only as a funny friend.

If we're talking about a stranger

Before starting a conversation with a stranger, you should instantly win her over. Subtle and tactful humor provides an atmosphere of friendliness and relaxation. The joke must be appropriate to the situation and concern both interlocutors. This will liberate the stranger and set her up for communication, even if at this moment she does not want to contact anyone. You need to speak with a smile, softly, unobtrusively. If a lady turns out to be well-mannered, she will definitely smile.

A little creativity

You can invent a new special way to cheer up your significant other or use popular ready-made options:

Order a song to be performed near your loved one’s home. You can be together or at a distance. All that is required from the gentleman are words of love.
Send a video message from the girl's pet. This method is suitable if your other half is far away and misses your pet.
Write fifty love notes (in prose or poetry) with affectionate words, fill a cute jar with them. You need to put a label on the container that says “Why I’m in love.” You can tie the dishes with a ribbon, decorate them with a flower or a bow.
Make “letters of memory.” The jar is filled with short notes describing touching moments from the history of relationships (acquaintance, beginning of school). You can make a book with emotional stories, decorate it with romantic photographs and drawings.
Make messages in balloons. They put love notes in the balloons, inflate them and invite the chosen one to “pop” them together. If your companion is very bored, then you can hide the balls.

Why is it so important to be able to make a girl laugh?

First, show us a person who doesn't like to laugh. It is unlikely that there will be such a person, because laughter is a rather pleasant state that relaxes vigilance, helps you relax and simply trust a person who can make you laugh properly.

Just think about your close friends, aren't you just busy with them laughing every fifteen minutes? The same principles apply when you're talking to a girl.

If she laughs with you, it means she is comfortable, and she will be ready to continue communicating with you simply because it is pleasant. Moreover, the ability to make people laugh can compensate for some other shortcomings that you quite likely have (for example, a crooked nose or empty pockets).

Therefore, always try to be the same guy with whom she has fun and ease. Without this, the chances of success are extremely low.

How to make a girl laugh while texting

Correspondence allows you to get to know a person well, and in our time it is one of the most popular ways of communication.

Do you want to cheer up your interlocutor? Follow simple recommendations

Make sure the girl is free and has time to chat. Start by telling a long story that once happened to you. Important: the story must be funny. Are you communicating with your beloved? Remind her of the pleasant moments you experienced together. Ideal option: add a corresponding photo to positive memories.
An option suitable for the girl you love or like: record a video. These could be declarations of love, tender words. There is no way to shoot a video or your relationship has not reached such a close level? Cheer up your mood with videos from the Internet, selected to suit the tastes of your interlocutor. There are a lot of materials on the Internet that can cheer up a girl - with animals, children, comic book characters, and so on. Perhaps she likes jokes with awkward situations? There are also enough such videos.
Start making plans in correspondence that evoke pleasant emotions in the girl. Example: trip to another city, birthday party, picnic, meeting with friends. Many girls like to make plans, it puts them in a positive mood.
Goal: not just to cheer up the girl, but to leave positive emotions for a long time? Send a touching poem. You can turn to a collection of works by famous poets or show off your own talent.

If you're nearby

Sometimes, there’s no need to invent anything, everything you need is at hand. This is your love. She will tell you the most effective ways:

Hug and kiss;
Tell a funny story that happened to you. Don't remember the story? Retell in your own words the plot of a funny film or book;
And funny jokes have not lost their power to amuse. Take advantage of this;
Buy something tasty or some cute trinket. It seems that the stuffed bunny means nothing. But it will warm your heart and definitely make you smile;
But here is a method that has worked for centuries, and continues to work today - poetry ! There is something warm about them for a girl’s soul. Awaken romance by reading funny or lyrical lines.

Of course, the very magic of your presence is at work here! But still, if your beloved sees your efforts and search for opportunities to cheer, she will appreciate it and respond with a smile, a radiant look or a mischievous laugh.

What if there is a distance between you? What should I do? I continue to share ways that can lift your spirits.

Let's cheer up by correspondence

It is not possible to support your loved one nearby, then, while at a distance, write a pleasant message on the phone.

Go to her Instagram profile, like her posts and write a nice comment on them.
In order not to be tormented by thoughts of what to write, as soon as you wake up, wish good morning and a good day to your friend. A small action will fill her heart with positive emotions from the very beginning of the day. Closer to bed, do not forget to say good night.
Share a funny picture or video. Try to refrain from making silly or vulgar jokes if they may not be appropriate or understood. Try to use interesting stories with animals.
While talking on the phone, tell a funny story. After all, laughter helps prolong life and get rid of negative thoughts.

Such simple methods can return a girl to a good mood. If you have other methods, please indicate them in the comments.

Additional Information

If a girl is sad or sick, then you need to cheer her up.
Messages, correspondence, funny pictures and even gentle poems of your own composition are suitable. The main thing is to give her support, show your care, and be extremely attentive and sensitive. One SMS can put you in the mood for the whole day. Write a nice message every morning so that it will give the girl a good mood all day long. It is worth reminding yourself from time to time; showing care will not let you become sad. The main thing is not to interrogate about the problem if the chosen one does not want to talk, this will only aggravate the situation.

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Original and creative ways to cheer up

If you don’t want to go down the beaten track and use standard methods, I suggest trying one of the following unusual techniques.

Organize a fun flash mob

Gather your friends, learn a simple funny dance, draw posters and arrange an incendiary performance under the girl’s windows. I guarantee that she will remember this for the rest of her life and will enthusiastically brag to her friends. Don’t forget to take a video so you can watch it together and laugh again.

Make a photo collage

Dig through photo archives, find the most touching and beautiful photographs of her, print them out and paste them onto a large Whatman paper. Don't forget to complement them with gentle signatures and bright hearts.

Bombard her with sweet messages.

Ask all your friends to send messages to the girl with nice words over the phone or through social networks. This will be enough to make her smile and take her mind off painful thoughts.

Organize a tour of unusual places

For example, on the roofs of houses with the most stunning views, or on abandoned buildings where you can arrange a cool photo shoot. Google it, there are probably a lot more interesting locations in your city.

Write a poem or song for her

The dream of any girl is to be the beautiful muse of a poet in love. Use your brain and try to create something original or at least funny to cheer her up. There is no need to compete with Pushkin, just be sincere. The girl will definitely appreciate such a broad gesture.

For even more ideas, watch this video.

What to say to a girl when she is sick and sad

Encourage with the right words

If your girlfriend is sick, and because of this she is not in any mood, then you have the power to cheer her up and direct her thoughts in a completely different direction. Offer to take her out or go to some interesting place immediately after she gets better. Choose an option for spending time that she will definitely like. Tell her you miss her smile and ask what you can do to make her feel at least a little better.

Distract with a beautiful poem or SMS

A sick girl not only usually feels bad, but also suffers from bad thoughts. It may seem to her that while she is fighting her illness, you can pay attention to another person. She is also now less confident in her attractiveness because... any illness usually affects appearance in some way. Your task is to dispel all the doubts of your chosen one, paying her as much attention as possible - including by correspondence. Let her know that you think about her often. Write her touching and sensual SMS - she will appreciate it. Don’t disappear for a long period, try to be in touch almost always. It wouldn’t hurt to send your beloved a beautiful poem about love – either written by you or found on the Internet. Also, choose a romantic song, study the lyrics, make sure that there are only pleasant and exciting words - send this work to the girl, noting that it reminded you of her.

Reassure with a positive outlook and attitude

Let the girl know that you are confident in her speedy recovery. At the same time, note that if the process takes a little longer, then you will be with her all this time and support her in every possible way. Come up with some interesting pastime that she can afford now. If you can visit her, then be sure to take advantage of this opportunity, but do not abuse it - a sick person needs proper rest and sleep, so one visit a day will be enough, after which keep in touch in another way. Let the girl understand that despite the fact that today she seems to have “fell out of life” a little, your attitude towards her remains the same, and you are still ready to take care of her.

It's nice to surprise with a surprise

Of course, words alone are not enough in this situation, and this is exactly the case when a guy has a huge chance to prove himself and get closer to a girl. Some young people make the catastrophic mistake of telling a girl something like: “Well, for now, you get better, we’ll meet later, I won’t bother you.” Most often, this behavior results in a break in the relationship on the part of the girl, because she understands that this guy only needs him when she doesn’t have problems. If you want to impress a girl and become the main character in her enthusiastic stories to her friends, then act differently. Bring her, for example, a basket of fruit - firstly, vitamins will not hurt her now, and secondly, it’s just pleasant and impressive. You can also bring goodies that she likes - candy, sushi, and even sausage! It is important that you remember her tastes and want to please her. Girls of all ages respond positively to soft toys - bring her a big hare or a bear, saying that he will “look after” her while you are not around. In general, the gift can be anything - the main thing is that it is a pleasant surprise for the girl.

By the way, the surprise may be of a different kind. For example, a collage with photos of you together, a video made from footage of your vacation together, an armful of balloons, a flower in a pot, and much more. The main thing is that it is touching and beautiful.

Please note that if you regularly visit a girl during this period, this can not only please her, but sometimes put her in an uncomfortable position - this is due to the fact that you need to be looked after during tea parties, fed you lunch, and the like. This may seem like a small thing, but during illness, not every girl is able to take care of such things every day. That is why you should bring treats for tea yourself, to avoid possible awkward situations.

Please with flowers

Surely, your girlfriend loves flowers, and now you have the right reason to give her such a sign of attention. Choose a beautiful bouquet and bring it in person or send it through a courier. Most likely, your chosen one will be pleased with such a gesture, and the flowers will delight her eyes for a long time, reminding her of you. If the recovery period is prolonged, please the girl with flowers more often - don’t even doubt that she will like it.

Jokes for when she's sad

Who doesn't love jokes? Everyone likes them because they lift your spirits and make you feel cheerful for a long time.

But there is one nuance - not everyone likes jokes with vulgar notes or rude phrases.

“If programmers come to power, entire ministries will be replaced with a small script”
“When you clean the dirt off your mouse, you discover new features of your browser.”
“A hedgehog was walking through the forest, farted, landed and moved on”

If nothing comes to mind, then turn to the Internet for help.