In this article you will find answers to questions about falling in love and the conditions that accompany this feeling.
Many young boys and girls are familiar with this situation when falling in love overwhelms them. But it’s not always possible to get to know the object of adoration better. When you see him, you begin to shake and a pleasant shiver appears in your body.
What is this unknown feeling - falling in love? This question has not yet been answered. No one can clearly explain what this feeling means for a person, but many were lucky enough to feel its arrival.
Why does your hands or body shake when you see your loved one? Reasons
Why does one’s hands or body shake when they see a loved one? Reasons
All people “shake” in certain situations: when it’s cold, when they feel fear or excitement.
- Trembling may even occur when talking about interesting topics.
- Esotericists claim that such topics have their own energy wave, and a person, falling into it, is at the stage of excitement and anticipation.
- For some people, the “shaking” begins at the beginning of meetings, for others - at the end of the date.
- There are times when this condition occurs after dating.
- For many, when communication returns to normal, the reaction goes away, but for others it persists even after some time.
Why do you shake when you see your loved one?
So why do your hands and body shake and tremble when you see your loved one? Causes:
- Excess energy . The main thing is to maintain this feeling for as long as possible. If this works out, then the next stage will be true love - the same bright and unique feeling in its sensations.
- Lust. A person desires his object of adoration so much that he cannot control himself. A feeling of lust can appear if you like a person very much.
- Fear and excitement from the feeling of love . Many people associate this “shaking” with the fear of pain that a person can cause on an energetic level. They even note that this fear and anxiety arises before an unpleasant test. People break up, causing pain to the person who felt the feeling of excitement and lust.
- Abstinence . The human body reacts to exciting events in our lives. There is an active production of hormones that prepare the body for active actions, the pulse quickens, muscle tone and blood pressure increase, and the breathing rate increases. The body needs actions, and if such actions do not occur, tension grows inside and a slight shaking of the hands or the whole body begins.
Trembling at the sight of a person they like appears in those whose body reacts more strongly to excitement, as well as in those people who are not used to being emotional, but restrain themselves all the time and try to be rational.
Other people's complaints
Who doesn't know such people? They like to focus on problems rather than solutions. They want others to feel sorry for them - only then will they feel better. To avoid appearing rude or arrogant, most people are empathetic.
An effective strategy with such peers is to ask him or her what they think he/she is going to do to solve the problem. This question leads to two possible outcomes: either the other person suddenly ends the conversation, or they are directed in a productive direction.
Why do you start shaking when you meet your ex?
Why do you start shaking when you meet your ex?
Often anxiety when meeting an ex-boyfriend arises if he was the initiator of the breakup. Probably, your feelings have not yet cooled down and begin to shake when you meet your ex.
- This happens if a girl understands that he doesn’t need her, and he is still just as handsome, smart, in general, the best.
- It's difficult to date your ex-boyfriend if the relationship is over, but communication remains. Therefore, many women do not agree to communicate after a breakup; it is easier for them to remain enemies than to experience excitement and even pain at the sight of their former loved one.
- There is one excellent psychological technique to tame your anxiety - this is to imagine a person as poor and helpless. Japanese samurai also used this method of taming their feelings. They could carry on a conversation with any people, imagining them dirty and in ragged clothes, but at the same time they felt majestic and confident.
A person in love wants to constantly dance and sing, “move mountains” and soar in the skies. It is not surprising that during this feeling one begins to shake, and a slight blush appears on the cheeks, and perhaps this is not just falling in love, but true and pure love!
When it’s difficult with your interlocutor
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They hide everywhere: gossips, narcissists, know-it-alls, cholerics. Some people are difficult to evaluate subjectively, and it is difficult to find the right way to deal with them. It is really difficult to discern their behavior. They often cause arguments, stress or chaos.
While some often don't even realize what they are actually doing, many seem to take some joy in persecuting their fellow creatures. No matter which type you're dealing with, they both cause one thing above all: stress. The longer this stress lasts, the greater the damage.
Weeks of stress can cause reversible damage to nerve dendrites, which are responsible for transmitting impulses in the body. If this continues even longer, these neurons may even be permanently destroyed. Therefore, difficult people are a powerful source of strong stressful and irreversible reactions. They really make you shake.
The ability to manage your emotions and remain calm during times of stress directly correlates with your success. Successful people with high emotional quotients have sophisticated coping skills that they use to keep difficult people in line.
Tremor, trembling, feeling of vibration: causes and symptoms.
There are many tips and strategies on how to best communicate with these people around you. The main thing is to know what can and cannot be changed. As always, the same rule applies here: you are able to influence the situation much more than you think. You can consider the most common types of difficult interlocutors and communication strategies.
Feelings in the body during emotions
The heart is beating strongly, there is a chill in the chest, the hands are shaking - everything is falling out of one’s hands, the feeling in the whole body is stiffness, as if everything has frozen, turned to stone (especially the shoulders)
Throbbing pain in the temples, temples “in a vice”, “twists the stomach”, “squeezes” the heart, cold feet and hands, lump in the throat, squeezing the breath
ordinary people who responded to my survey on social networks describe the sensations in their bodies during anxiety Thank you very much - this is an important social contribution to normality!
